Real leadership involves authenticity, being genuine, even transparent.
While not always popular, it is essential.
A good friend once told me people want to see the same guy up front preaching that they greet at the back door.
Give this some thought.
We should not take on a different personality when we preach or teach, and we must not excuse such by calling it passion.
If our personality is not passionate outside the pulpit, then why would it become so in the pulpit?
Leading others brings many challenges and this one is difficult. However, if we want to lead others, then we need to BE REAL!