There is a difference in something being uncomfortable versus unscriptural.
The challenge is recognizing the difference, but how?
Know the book. When knowledge of God’s word is weak, leaders will struggle to know if something is biblical or not.
Seek wisdom through prayer. Prayer is one of the most powerful tools and often neglected. God says ask for wisdom and it will be given.
Ask the right questions. What does the Bible say about this matter? Is this practice tradition? Should it continue? How will it affect the church?
Be patient. No decision should be made in one meeting. Give it time, but be careful not to procrastinate.