Bob Turner

Distracted…

How often do we know what we should be doing and where our attention should be given, but then we get distracted? I intended to post this blog earlier, but as you may have guessed…I got distracted.

Distractions are not always major events that cause us to lose sight of what is most important. Sometimes, the smallest of situations occur and a moment later we are consumed to the point we ignore all else, even when we know we need to remain focused.

As leaders, we must constantly evaluate the direction of our leadership: character, priorities, influence, responsibilities, etc. Evaluation is a daily occurrence, a time to reflect on our actions and – if necessary – redirect our attention back to the foundational values of our life and leadership.

Take a few moments each day, and maybe several times during the day, to reflect. Are we distracted in an area that has moved our sights from our core values or the goal(s) we established?

Make the necessary adjustments and get back on track. Distractions will come in various shapes and sizes, but strive to prevent them from setting up house to stay longer than warranted.

A Leaders Greatest Asset…

What is a leader’s greatest asset? Answers to the question may vary from one individual to the next. However, in leadership circles the greatest asset is trust. If people lose trust in their leader, they will not follow and without followers there is no leadership.

Perhaps the most relevant area to consider involves developing trust as a leader. What can leaders do in order to establish a relationship of trust? A few suggestions include the following:

1. Demonstrate competence. The demonstration of wisdom in decision-making and follow-through helps leaders show a competence that followers demand.

2. Eliminate inconsistencies. Hypocrisy is one of the most detrimental and discouraging areas of leadership. Learning to align our words and actions with our core values eliminates inconsistency.

3. Cultivate character. While challenging, character development is vital to successful leadership and integrity is the cornerstone upon which we cultivate trust.

More could be said about this asset so desperately needed in leadership, but these three provide a basis upon which to begin our journey towards establishing trust.

Prepare To Lead…

Preparation is essential in every area of life. The lack of preparation most often results in consequences that damage our influence and leadership.

Sadly, there are those who prepare to lead for the purpose of gaining an advantage over others, or to simply achieve their own agenda. These efforts may create situations where a leader gains a position of power or strengthens their popularity.

But, beware of the long term consequences. God never intended our leadership to be self-serving. Rather, He designed leadership to be self-sacrificing, one of self-denial where others are more important than self.

Paul’s letter to the church at Philippi is a quick read, but one filled with depth about the type of influence leaders were intended to have through an “others-centric” style of leading.

The right mind (humility), the right example (Christ), the right design (interest of others), and the right motive (abounding love and grace).

With this combination, leaders prepare themselves to lead with significance. The result makes an eternal difference.

The Choice of Courage…

More can be written on courage than we have space for in this post, but we should consider that courage is more than an attribute. Courage is a choice made in the moment it is needed.

We could talk about areas that create fear and the affects of that fear. We could also examine a number of ways to overcome fear. Some favorites: acknowledge what we are afraid of, and face our fears.

We know the need exists to demonstrate healthy fear when danger can inflict harm to ourselves and others.

What really enables us to overcome the battles and storms of life that seem to intimidate and discourage us? What empowers us to overcome the insecurities, doubt, and distractions that prevent the choice of courage?

We must fight the battles and endure the storms that come our way in life. Through it all, one powerful thought is needed for leaders. God is with us and He is for us. Read Romans 8:31-39.

Optimum Workout Level…

Workout programs are a dime a dozen. A Google search reveals millions of routines available that guarantee results. Each individual or organization promotes their product(s) as part of the optimum workout program with the intent of enticing people to buy-in.

Whether we want to lose weight, bulk up, or define muscle intonation, there are numerous possibilities available with the click of the mouse button. The big push now is not just to start the program, but how to motivate people to continue in the program.

Those who search through these programs indicate a desire to improve their lives. Maybe its the desire to look better, fit in our clothes better, or just enjoy better overall health. The bottom line is a desire to improve physically.

Imagine the spiritual difference when leaders appeal in similar ways to improve the spiritual lives of those who desire to be better.

How do we appeal to people and encourage them to get started and motivate them to continue? The optimum level results in lives that are changed for the short-term and the long haul. How are we doing?

A Happy Life…

Albert Einstein is credited with say, “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”

The search for happiness appears to be the never ending pursuit of most people. Some search for happiness in material things or vast wealth, as if the accumulation of money or stuff will bring happiness.

Some pursue happiness through relationships, looking for “Mr. or Mrs. Right,” as though someone else can make them happy.

The list could go on, but all of these areas will disappoint in the long run.

Einstein’s thought deserves attention in the arena of leadership. Concerning the church today, and following on the heels of yesterday’s post on success, imagine the atmosphere in people’s lives individually and the church corporately when we are tied and committed to a goal.

One of the primary tasks of leaders is to provide a vision that followers can be passionate about because when they are passionate about it they will give their lives to it. Then, we set a goal before them that will drive every breath, thought, and action.

Happiness will most likely follow.

Success…

Before we can experience success, we must understand what we mean be success.

The definition of success on a personal and corporate level takes on different dimensions accordingly. We also find that the definition of success often changes with the stage and development of one’s life. Based on the generic dictionary definition, success is “an event that accomplishes its intended purpose, an attainment that is successful.”

A problem tends to enter the picture when we consider success strictly from a position of fame or prosperity.

Most of us know this intellectually, but still find it difficult to determine how we define success otherwise.

One thought, however, should be considered in the realm of leadership. If we do not know how to define success, creating a vision for the future will be met with great challenge.

When we do not know the destination, how will we ever know if we reach it? Beyond this, why would anyone be passionate about pursuing the vision?

Unless we first define what we mean by success, any thought to our vision crumbles with a sense of mediocrity.

The Perfect Leader…

What qualities would describe the perfect leader?

Of course, the only perfect leader was Jesus. The accounts of His life, as described in the gospels, leave us with an incredible biography of leadership.

From these records we learn of His compassion, empathy, humility, love, and much more. One quality that seems to rise to the top is the servant’s heart displayed in every action.

Jesus came to this earth as a bond-servant and He left this earth as a bond-servant. Every breath between these two points exemplified servant-leadership. Here are a few lessons to learn from His example:

1) Servants do not look out for their own interests, but seek to put others above themselves (Phi. 2:3-5).

2) Servants are aware of the present circumstances and extend a solution to the need (Jn. 6:1-14 cf. v. 5).

3) Servants never seek opportunity for their own glory, but look to glorify God (Mt. 5:16; Jn. 8:49-59).

These are only three ideas among four gospels that provide a source worth exploring to improve our leadership of God’s people.

The Heart…

Before we dig in, we have to know what the heart issue is talking about.

Do we have the heart for leadership? Our leadership is about influence, passion, character, vision and much more. If we have the heart for our leadership then we do what is necessary to prepare ourselves in each area to grow and develop appropriately.

Do we have the heart for challenges? Without exception, leaders are going to face challenges. While some will always be more difficult than others, they are challenges nonetheless. When we have the heart for challenges, we begin preparing before the challenge happens. We also see wise counsel before making decisions affecting the challenge.

Do we have the heart for people? Good leadership involves people and no two people are the same. Having a heart for people means being a part of their lives and being transparent to them with our own. Connecting with people raises leadership to incredible heights and makes an eternal difference.

Not everyone has the heart for it. However, those who have a heart for leadership change the shape of tomorrow.

What Would We Do?

A recent thought was suggested to a group of men with powerful implications.

If the Lord were to require of you and me that we could not go to heaven until we converted 1,000 souls to Christ, what would we do?

We should state at this point, even though it should be obvious, this is not a matter of simply dunking people in water and claiming (since they have been baptized) they are converted.

With that out of the way, what would you and I really do?

We know this is not the Lord’s requirement, but if it were, would we not stop everything we currently do and start diligently trying to share the gospel with others?

Why do we allow ourselves to think we have plenty of time, when the Lord could come now, or those we want to reach might die?

What will it take for me to realize the urgency of eternity? When will I recognize the reality of hell?

Life is too short to focus on the here and now. Lead people to see the hereafter! Eternity Matters!