Struggling with addictions often leads to denial.

The loss of a loved one can leave one in denial.

Various trials faced in life bring us to this point.

Leaders must not wear the proverbial blinders regarding present circumstances. There must be an awareness of reality.

Problems exist, and someone else will not solve them. Address problems when they arise so they can be resolved when they are smaller.

Denial can quickly lead to destruction.

Leadership is too valuable to allow denial to rob us of reaching our goal.

Charisma is not a quality of self-centered leaders. How much of our conversations focus on us, what we do, our family, our interests, etc.?

When leaders have charisma they add value to the lives of others. They give others hope.

While we need to know what the Bible says about sin, we need to remember the Bible is a book about hope. Jesus is our hope.

Inspiring devotion in others is built on the ability of leaders to provide that hope.

The charisma of spiritual leaders is directly related to this ability. Pride, insecurity, and cynicism destroy the ability to lead others to hope.

Who determines the scale between 1 and 10? Does it differ from one person to another? Is there a consistent standard allowing for accurate evaluation?

How would we rate on a scale of 1 to 10?

Consistency is a needed virtue. Therefore, consider a couple of factors:

1. People rate our leadership (like it or not).
2. The rating is determined by ability, decisions, relationships, and previous success.
3. We will give an account for our leadership.
4. The standard is God’s word.

A change in our rating is up to us. Again we ask, “How does our leadership measure up?”

We’ve all seen the expression: “Live well, love much, and laugh often.”

Live well – How well are we living? Are we simply living for the moment or living well with eternity in view?

Love much – Leadership only succeed when those who are led know we love them. Our desire for their highest good must be seen in our words and actions.

Laugh often – It is easy to get wrapped up in the struggles of daily life and forget the importance of laughter. We need to find joy throughout life.

When these expressions make up our existence, we will see a difference.

Live well, love much, laugh often!

How many times have we heard, “Anything worth doing, is worth doing right.”

As leaders, the task set before us is worth doing, and it is worth doing right. In fact, we must do it right to reach our goal.

From the book of Exodus, it is fascinating how many times the phrase “as the Lord commanded” is used. Clearly, God wanted Moses and the children of Israel to understand the importance of doing what He had commanded them, and do it right.

The opportunity to benefit from His grace…
The privilege of worshipping our God…
The joy of sharing the gospel…

All of these, and so much more, make up the core of our leadership. Let’s do it right!

A recent post of Facebook deserves attention today. Dean Meadows posted, “How a man treats his wife says much about how he views God.”

What a powerful thought to consider regarding the leadership needed within the home. Think about it men. As the leader in our home, we have a responsibility to fulfill the God-given role of leading.

Dean’s post is right. How we treat the wife God has given, speaks to the way we view Him.

How are we leading in our home?

The future of leadership hinges on several factors.

Learn from history: Spiritual leaders are students of God’s word and they apply it.

Be students of the present: We need to observe and learn from current leaders and followers.

Desire to serve others: Leadership must be more concerned with serving than being served.

Glorify God: Leadership should be motivated and driven with this purpose.

Develop a plan: Developing a plan is vital for the right direction. These steps provide a foundation.

We do not know the future, but a few steps can help secure the future for spiritual leaders.

Does it surprise us when we pray for patience and then experience challenges? The problem is we want patience, but we want it now! Hmmm!

Too often, we expect growth and maturity as though we were ordering a meal at a drive-thru window. We place our order on one side and expect to have it waiting for us when we reach the other side. No patience required, right?

Church growth requires leaders to be patient. The demonstration of patience is a powerful lesson for all spiritual leaders.

In time, the demonstration of such patience and gentle guidance will yield fruit to the glory of our God.

How many times do we expect others to know what is on our mind? Somehow, we assume others naturally know what we are thinking, as if they are a mind reader.

Leaders can make this mistake, if they are not careful.

People do not know what we are thinking unless we tell them.

Consider vision: Vision must be effectively communicated. People follow leaders who know where they are going and how to communicate that direction.

Expecting others to know what we think does not work. Communicate, and others will follow.

Wisdom says, “Stand up to be seen. Speak up to be heard. Sit down to be appreciated.”

The application reaches into many areas, but it certainly has relevance for leaders.

Leaders should be accessible and approachable. Questions need to be answered, plans discussed, and vision plotted.

Leaders must be clear. Leaders need to be decisive, but they must also be clear and precise.

Leaders also need to know their limitations. They must know the balance and limits of their time and talent.

Followers value leaders who are visible, understood, and work within the boundaries of their ability.