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Bob’s daily blog of leadership points.

How Big Can We Think?

We have to wonder what could happen if leaders knew how to think big. The passion that drives greatness, especially from a spiritual perspective, must be nothing short of global.

Nelson Mandela once said, “There is no passion to be found playing small––in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”

The challenge of settling for less than what we are capable of is only coupled with the limitations placed upon what God is capable of doing through us…if we only let Him.

We often believe God will not do it because we are convinced we cannot do it.

The “grasshopper syndrome” of the spies in Numbers 13-14 orchestrates our own defeat. The problem was not how the Israelites appeared in the eyes of the giants in Canaan. The problem was in how they saw themselves––grasshoppers in their own sight.

Leaders must not fall prey to this mindset. There must be a passion that is driven by and for greatness––a greatness that is only measured by the power of God to work in amazing and powerful ways.

Essentially Primal…

Do leaders think from a primal perspective? Before we drift into the early stages of evolutionary development, primal carries the impetus of something that is essential or foundational.

Nothing could more essential than spiritual leadership. Nothing could be more foundational to eternity than spiritual leadership.

How does the idea of primal apply to the surroundings of leadership?

Primal comes from a Latin word meaning “first.” The idea relates to the beginnings, first things, primary, essential, and foundational elements of all that is connected to life intellectually, physically, emotionally, and physically.

When we think about leadership, the need is evident to understand the primary––first elements that must be in place for the success of leading.

These elements are the building blocks of all leaders and include integrity, honesty, strong work ethic, passion, confidence in God, discipline, and balance.

There will always be additional elements to include, but these are the “primal” of leadership.

Using these as a foundation, leaders can build strength and character that provides hope for everyone who follows.

Keeping Confidentiality…

One of the most critical areas of leadership involves an understanding of confidentiality. While there is an application to all Christians, leaders must know how to keep something in confidence.

While several thoughts stand out when thinking about confidentiality and the benefit to leadership, leaders should always remember that confidentiality speaks to a sacred trust. Followers need to know they can place their feelings, their very lives, into the hands of someone they trust.

1) When leaders keep confidentiality, relationships are built with resilience of character.

2) The ability to keep something in confidence makes leaders approachable.

3) The value of keeping a confidence strengthens the bond of relationships.

4) Confidentiality is a privilege that provides guidelines for developing greater leadership.

5) Keeping a confidence grows a more Christlike character.

Confidentiality is critical for leaders. They must guard what has been placed into their sacred trust. When they do, the resulting development of character builds a leadership worth following.

Who Makes The Choice?

One of the most frustrating challenges in relationships is reflected in a statement by Colin Powell, “You can’t make someone else’s choices. You shouldn’t let someone else make yours.”

The challenge is even more complicated from a leadership perspective. On one hand, it would be easy to make someone else’s choices for them. After all, a leader is supposed to have the answers, right?

On the other hand, if leaders were making decisions for others, others would be positioned to make choices for the leader.

When leaders made choices for others the potential of resentment exists.

When leaders make choices for others, a certain expectation can be created.

Making choices for others can also lead to an unhealthy dependency.

Leading is about relationships and leading others involves helping them make the right choices, not making those choices for them.

Leadership has the potential of influencing others for a greater purpose. Let us always lead with the desire to help others see the choice of heaven.

The Focus Is On…

Something happens during the transition from following to leadership. One of the great myths about leadership is that when we reach this position, we get to focus on ourselves. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Leaders should be cautious about what they say, how they write, and the influence they have when leading others.

When our speech (spoken or written) is filled with personal pronouns, e.g. “me,” “myself,” and “I,” then leaders need to step back and evaluate what, or perhaps more appropriate, who they are promoting.

The strength of true spiritual leadership must always be focused on the good of others, even at the expense of self.

When Jesus was teaching the apostles about being a servant (Jn. 13), He used the term love regarding a new commandment. The powerful influence of this type of leadership is that all people will know we are His disciples if we have love for one another.

How do we demonstrate love if our words and actions betray that love for the purpose of serving self?

Leadership is filled with its challenges, not the least of which is “self.”

A Spiritual Catalyst…Part 2

As a catalyst, leaders incite forward and positive movement. For a leader to benefit in developing the characteristics of a catalyst, there must be a genuine interest in others.

Genuine interest is much easier said than done. Also, there are individuals we are more genuinely interested in than others.

Leaders are familiar with individuals who can be emotionally draining. The time and energy demanded can be challenging.

A genuine interest in others requires a few key components.

Genuine interest requires the ability to listen. Far too often the tendency is to think about a response, rather than listening to the words, body language, and tone of voice.

Genuine interest requires eye contact. When there is disinterest it is hard not to look at the clock/watch, At best, eye contact becomes challenging, and at worst, we struggle just to stay awake.

Genuine interest requires appropriate questions. Asking appropriate questions, i.e. who, why, how, when, what, helps identify interest in the lives of others.

A few key components make a catalyst leader effective in their leadership.

A Spiritual Catalyst…Part 1

By definition, a catalyst is “a substance that increases the rate of chemical reaction without itself undergoing any permanent chemical change.”

When a leader serves as a catalyst amazing developments can occur. Over the next few days we will examine the characteristics of a spiritual catalyst with the intent of improving our ability as leaders.

Today, the characteristic is one of helping others.

In their book, The Starfish and the Spider, Brafman and Beckstrom researched several areas concerning leadership and the qualities of a catalyst.

Consistent with each was their desire to help others. As I read through the examples provided, I could not help but connect the idea to a spiritual catalyst.

Spiritual catalysts are able to effect powerful influence because they desire to help others.

Catalysts help others see their potential in the Lord’s kingdom.

Catalysts help others implement plans to reach their potential.

Catalysts help others connect with people who can assist them reach their potential.

The need for catalysts is significant in the development of the Lord’s kingdom. Tomorrow we will consider another characteristic.

Feeling Secure…

Security highlights several important factors that have a significant role in leadership.

When leadership provides direction that is fixed so as not to give way, followers feel secure.

When there is no threat because leaders keep followers safe and unharmed, they feel secure.

When followers are protected against the attacks of the enemy, the environment is secure.

When leaders are stable, eliminate anxiety, and are free from fear, security exists.

Go back through the four statements above and consider them within a spiritual context. There is a great need for leaders who do not give way to a liberal direction, who provide spiritual protection from the forces of Satan/evil. Spiritual leaders must provide stability that eliminates the fear and anxiety associated with the temporal world.

For leaders to accomplish this type of security a few simple steps will help.

1) Be strong in faith.

2) Grow in knowledge of the word.

3) Trust in God.

4) Remember there is strength in numbers.

5) Lead with confidence.

Character that Keeps…

Although the author is unknown, the following statement is worth reading, “You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess.”

One side of this thought identifies what people see, but the other side speaks to what people know about us.

Often times, leaders put forth a front that people see on the surface, but it may not truly portray the character of the individual. Followers may flock to someone they see displaying qualities they admire and perhaps desire to possess themselves.

However, in order to keep these followers loyal and faithful, these qualities must make up the core values possessed by their leader.

While we have all heard variations of the thought, it is true that we can fool some of the people some of the time. We may even fool most of the people most of the time. But, we cannot fool all of the people all of the time. And even if we could, we cannot fool God.

We must focus on possessing the type of godly qualities demanded of spiritual leaders. The outward display that people see will naturally follow.

Measure Twice, Cut Once…

This timeless piece of advice is familiar to most who have participated in any form of carpentry. If you are like me, this is a lesson learned by experience.

We might easily trust the first measurement and memory only to learn after the cut is made that an additional cut is required or another piece completely.

Serious medical diagnoses are generally followed up with a second opinion. When someone’s health is potentially in peril, circumstance demands additional counsel.

However, the lesson behind this advice extends beyond the field of carpentry and medicine. In fact, the application is fitting for most areas of life, especially leadership.

Leadership credibility increases when decisions are based on additional information gained or counsel received, indicating the time taken to measure twice.

How different would the outcome have been if biblical leaders like Saul, David, Peter, and Paul had taken time to investigate further before making a decision that compromised their relationship with God and His people?

Measuring twice makes it possible to ensure accuracy before making decisions with great consequential impact.

Our relationship with God and leadership rests in the balance of this advice.