The concept of leadership raises a multiplicity of thoughts, one of which involves the duality of our purpose.

Whether we think from a corporate, political, educational, or spiritual perspective, two key components exist: 1) first and foremost we follow someone else, and 2) we carry a responsibility to influence those who follow.

Without understanding what it means to follow someone else, we lack the humility needed to influence those who follow.

Numerous authors on leadership emphasize the significance of this truth. Unless we know how to follow, we cannot properly lead.

We do well to remember that true success is not determined by the number of people who follow us, but by the one we choose to follow. We all know of leaders who led masses of people to death and destruction because they followed a self-glorifying purpose, or the wrongful intent of someone else.

Of course we also know of those who led only a few, but led them to victory because they chose to follow God, the One who delivered and provided success.

Knowing the duality of our purpose aids the direction of our choice.

The phrase may sound a bit odd, but the idea behind it is anything but odd.

We live in a world that has a more ego-centric problem. Everything is geared to satisfy self. The issues related to this problem grow exponentially with every breath.

A quick Google search or a tour through Amazon’s book selection reveals the magnitude of the problem. Book titles such as, Love Yourself, Celebrate Yourself, Self-Esteem: You’re Better Than You Think, and The Art of Learning to Love Yourself highlight a proverbial “drop-in-the-ocean” regarding the challenge before us.

The answer comes from a metamorphosis of our thinking. In Life on the Vine, Philip Kenneson discusses the Fruit of the Spirit. The focus throughout each chapter is an “others-centered” mindset.

Leaders must be people-centric, others-centered, if they desire true fulfillment. Even more interesting is the fact that the entire concept is biblical.

Jesus explicitly identifies the first step to discipleship as one of denying self (Lk. 9:23), and Paul caps off the thought with regarding others as more important than self (Phil. 2:3-4).

All leaders face problems. These problems come in small or large sizes. They often present themselves through the most difficult and negative of people and at the most inopportune time.

I am sure we’ve all known of individuals unwilling to accept a leadership role because they did not want to deal with problems. They did not want to deal with the frustration of complaining, complacency, and a general lack of cooperation.

Problems are not new, but how we deal with them makes a major difference. James Merritt writes about the necessity of patience in leadership. He said, “Problems are not meant to defeat you, depress you, or discourage you. God meant them to develop you.”

If we possessed a more developmental mindset toward problems, we would probably experience an entirely different attitude when they occur.

When problems occur, regardless of the source of the problem, we have an opportunity to evaluate our approach.

The demonstration of patience in these moments may just give us an opportunity to experience divine development. Now that will give us a new perspective on problems.

At times, a phrase evokes a well-house of emotions and strength. We possess the mental fortitude to influence the direction situations and the lives of others, but we often do not follow through because we think it will not make a difference. After all, what difference can one person make?

History records the powerful impact of one person. Vince Lombardi, Winston Churchill, Rosa Parks, and many more influenced the direction of teams, nations, and cultural mindsets.

The challenge surfaces when we consider the need for confidence, the type of confidence that believes we are the one who can and will make the difference.

A higher degree of education, social status, political appointment, or corporate position are not needed to influence situations that alter the course or direction.

Above all, we must allow God to use us as that influence. We can be that one!

Imagine the impact that could be made when leaders work together in the church to influence the direction of the world. Jesus took twelve men and turned the world upside down. Is it possible the same could be said of leaders today?

The concept of positive thinking is not new for anyone. Yet, we often fail to practice such in our daily lives, whether at work or home. Developing the mind of leadership requires us to consider the influence of our attitude on everyone around us.

Recently, I read the following statement by Leah LaBelle, “Work hard for what you want because it won’t come to you without a fight. You have to be strong and courageous and know that you can do anything you put your mind to. If somebody puts you down or criticizes you, just keep on believing in yourself and turn it into something positive.”

Sadly, at some point we will deal with those who are critical and negative. They look for ways to put others down or criticize. We could spend several posts to discuss why, but that is not the point.

We must remember to utilize our strength and courage to believe in ourselves and use negativity or criticism in a way that becomes positive in an effort to achieve our plans.

This characterizes the power of our leadership.