Normal in one culture will certainly be different in another culture. As well, normal in the mind of a child will not be normal in the mind of an adult.
Regardless of how we might think about a normal life, there is nothing normal about spiritual leadership.
…are concerned about the nature of their influence.
…live consistently with what they believe.
…know the mission.
…work for a cause far greater than themselves.
…share the planning and development of the goals.
…produces results that glorify God and fulfill His will.
Look at how the first word of each thought develops a spiritual leader.